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BY OTHERSThursday, January 17, 2019

by Mary Oliver

Dawn over the salt marsh: her ars poetica as a triptych, Wild Geese in flight, an attention practice to go and do, Blackwater Pond to disturb, a field index of her creatures, a prayer built from ordinary things, Percy and the dog songs, the one wild and precious question, the essential poems, her craft lectures, the two rare interviews, and the whole shelf in order.

tags: mary-oliver, poetry, attention, nature, provincetown, devotion, wild-geese, blackwater, dogs, prayer

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American poet · the bard of Provincetown

Mary Oliver

1935 – 2019


Instructions for living a life:
Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.

Pulitzer Prize for Poetry, 1984  ·  National Book Award, 1992

She walked the Provincetown woods at first light with a notebook in her pocket — and, having once been caught out without one, kept pencils hidden in the trees along her route, so she would never again be without a way to write down the world.

Her ars poetica

Instructions for living a life

  1. 1

    Pay attention.

    Not to the screen, not to the self — to the goldenrod, the pond, the one thing in front of you. Attention, she said, is the beginning of devotion.

  2. 2

    Be astonished.

    Let the world more or less kill you with delight. The grasshopper washing her face, the light on the water — astonishment is not naive; it is the most honest response there is.

  3. 3

    Tell about it.

    Then carry it back and set it down in plain words, so someone else, somewhere, lonely, might look up. The poem is the telling.

— from “Sometimes,” in Red Bird (2008)

Wild Geese

You do not have to be good.

· · ·

Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting —
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

— from Dream Work (1986).  read the whole poem ›

The practice

Pay attention

Attention, she wrote, is the beginning of devotion. It is also a muscle. Draw a small discipline and go do it — today, outside, for real.

A practice is waiting in the grass.

practices kept: 0

Blackwater Pond

Touch the water

She drank from this pond every morning for years. Disturb the surface; see what rises.

still water

lines from across her work · excerpts

A field index

The family of things

The same creatures return through fifty years of poems — not as symbols, she insisted, but as themselves, looked at hard enough to become luminous.

  • Wild geese

    Harsh and exciting overhead — the announcement, twice a year, that you belong to the family of things whether or not you feel it.

  • The great blue heron

    A blue preacher, motionless at the pond edge, teaching the long patience that attention requires.

  • The owl

    The other face of the tender world — beautiful and merciless at once. She never let the prettiness hide the talon.

  • The swan

    A question wearing feathers: did you see it, drifting all afternoon, and did it change the way you live?

  • The grasshopper

    The one who flung herself out of the grass, washed her face with her forearms, and made the whole summer day worth the asking.

  • The black bear

    Hunger in autumn, eating the sweetness of the world without apology — a kind of holy appetite.

  • The hummingbird

    A green light stitching the air, proof that delight can be both furious and weightless.

  • The snake

    Cool fire in the grass — not a thing to fear so much as a length of the same astonishment.

  • The fox & the deer

    The ones who watch you from the wood-edge, then turn and go easy back into the green, reminding you the world does not need you to be its center.

  • The wild things growing

    Pond lilies, goldenrod, the morning grass — she gave plants the same regard as prophets, the door to the woods being the door to the temple.

Praying

It doesn’t have to be the blue iris

For Mary Oliver, prayer was not elaborate and not a contest. It was attention to the ordinary, patched into a few plain words. Choose what is in front of you.

Pick a few ordinary things, and watch a prayer assemble itself.

…this isn’t a contest but the doorway into thanks, and a silence in which another voice may speak.

— after “Praying,” from Thirst (2006)

Dog Songs · 2013

Percy, and the great gladness of dogs

Late in life she gave a whole book to the dogs she loved — Percy above all, a small curly thing named for the poet Shelley, who ate a page of Emerson and once, mid-prayer, climbed into her lap. The dog poems are pure, unembarrassed joy.

Because of the dog’s joyfulness, our own is increased.
A dog can never tell you what she knows from the smells of the world, but you know, watching her, that you know almost nothing.

— from Dog Songs (2013)

The question

Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?

— the closing lines of “The Summer Day,” from House of Light (1990)

A reader’s anthology

The essential poems

Openings and closings, held a moment apart. The poem is the country between.

  1. In Blackwater Woods

    American Primitive · 1983

    Look, the trees are turning their own bodies into pillars of light…

    …to love what is mortal; to hold it against your bones; and, when the time comes to let it go, to let it go.

  2. When Death Comes

    New and Selected Poems · 1992

    When death comes like the hungry bear in autumn…

    I don’t want to end up simply having visited this world.

    read the whole poem ›
  3. The Journey

    Dream Work · 1986

    One day you finally knew what you had to do, and began…

    …determined to save the only life you could save.

  4. When I Am Among the Trees

    Thirst · 2006

    When I am among the trees… they give off such hints of gladness.

    …you too have come into the world to do this, to go easy, to be filled with light, and to shine.

  5. Mindful

    Why I Wake Early · 2004

    Every day I see or hear something that more or less kills me with delight…

    …the prayers that are made out of grass?

  6. Don’t Hesitate

    Swan · 2010

    If you suddenly and unexpectedly feel joy, don’t hesitate. Give in to it.

    Don’t be afraid of its plenty. Joy is not made to be a crumb.

  7. Mornings at Blackwater

    Red Bird · 2008

    For years, every morning, I drank from Blackwater Pond.

    …put your lips to the world. And live your life.

  8. The Summer Day

    House of Light · 1990

    Who made the world? Who made the swan, and the black bear?

    Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?

    read the whole poem ›
  9. Wild Geese

    Dream Work · 1986

    You do not have to be good.

    …over and over announcing your place in the family of things.

    read the whole poem ›

On the craft

Her classroom was the woods

She held the Catharine Osgood Foster Chair for Distinguished Teaching at Bennington until 2001, but rarely lectured from a podium. The teaching is in the handbooks, the essays, and a few recordings she made because she would not often read aloud.

The craft books & essays

  • A Poetry Handbook

    1994

    Her primer on the craft — sound, the line, meter, diction, imagery, revision. The gift may be innate, she insists, but the craft must be learned, mostly by reading great poems closely. “Every adjective and adverb is worth five cents. Every verb is worth fifty cents.”

    the book
  • Rules for the Dance

    1998

    A handbook for writing and reading metrical verse — scansion, meter, rhyme, the traditional forms — with fifty of the best metrical poems in English as worked examples. The companion in formal dress to the Handbook.

    read it (Internet Archive)
  • Upstream · Long Life · Blue Pastures · Winter Hours

    1995–2016

    Four books of essays that are really one long meditation on attention. “Attention is the beginning of devotion.” “For me the door to the woods is the door to the temple.”

Hear her

  • On Being — “I got saved by the beauty of the world”

    2015

    Krista Tippett’s conversation with her at 79 — one of the very few she ever gave. Full audio and transcript.

    listen / read
  • At Blackwater Pond: Mary Oliver Reads Mary Oliver

    2005

    Forty poems in her own voice — the recording she made because she so rarely read in public.

    the recording
  • “Wild Geese,” in her own voice

    video

    A short film of the poem read by Oliver herself (many uploads are not actually her — this one is).

    watch

The rare interviews

She let the poems speak

Mary Oliver almost never sat for interviews; she valued her privacy and her four decades with the photographer Molly Malone Cook, and preferred her writing to answer for her. These two are the famous exceptions.

On Being

with Krista Tippett · 2015
  • I got saved by poetry, and I got saved by the beauty of the world.
  • I say somewhere that attention is the beginning of devotion, which I do believe.
  • I wanted the “I” to be the possible reader, rather than about myself. It was an experience that happened to be mine, but could well have been anybody else’s.
  • Trust is very important — that is the creative process.
full transcript & audio

O, The Oprah Magazine

with Maria Shriver · 2011
  • What I have done is learn to love and learn to be loved. That didn’t come easy. And I learned to consider my life an amazing gift.
  • Asked what she had done with her one wild and precious life: “I used up a lot of pencils.”
the interview
The Uses of SorrowSomeone I loved once gave me
a box full of darkness.
open the box

It took me years to understand
that this, too, was a gift.

complete · from Thirst (2006)  (In my sleep I dreamed this poem.)

The shelf, in order

A working life, 1963–2017

Born Maple Heights, Ohio, 1935. Forty years in Provincetown with Molly Malone Cook. Died 2019, in Florida. In between, this.

Poetry

  • 1963No Voyage, and Other Poems
  • 1972The River Styx, Ohio
  • 1979Twelve Moons
  • 1983American PrimitivePulitzer Prize, 1984
  • 1986Dream Work
  • 1990House of Light
  • 1992New and Selected Poems, Vol. OneNational Book Award
  • 1994White Pine
  • 1997West Wind
  • 2000The Leaf and the Cloud
  • 2004Why I Wake Early
  • 2005New and Selected Poems, Vol. Two
  • 2006Thirst
  • 2008Red Bird
  • 2009Evidence
  • 2010Swan
  • 2012A Thousand Mornings
  • 2013Dog Songs
  • 2014Blue Horses
  • 2015Felicity
  • 2017Devotionsselected, career-spanning

Prose & craft

  • 1994A Poetry Handbook
  • 1995Blue Pastures
  • 1998Rules for the Dance
  • 1999Winter Hours
  • 2004Long Life
  • 2007Our Worldwith photographs by Molly Malone Cook
  • 2016Upstream
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